We need to treat borderline personality disorder for what it really is – a response to trauma. Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a highly stigmatised and misunderstood condition.
Australians with BPD face considerable barriers to accessing high-quality and affordable care, according to new research published today. For every 100 patients we treat in inpatient psychiatric wards, 43 will have BPD. People with this condition are vulnerable, impulsive, and highly susceptible to criticism – yet they continue to face stigma and discrimination when seeking care. We have come a long way since the days of viewing mental illness as a sign of weakness, but we are lagging behind in our attitude towards BPD. At least part of this stems from the way we frame the condition, and from the name itself.
Rather than as a personality disorder, BPD is better thought of as a complex response to trauma. How common is BPD? People-pleasing can be a result of trauma. It’s called ‘fawning’ — here’s how to recognize it. – Let's Queer Things Up! When I recently wrote a Twitter thread about my people-pleasing tendencies, I didn’t at all expect for it to go viral.
Yet that’s exactly what happened. As I shared my experiences with trauma and people-pleasing, I was hit with an avalanche of emotion. So many of you could relate to this phenomenon known as “fawning,” and it became immediately clear that we needed this resource to exist outside of Twitter. NoMoreGurus Homepage. We will Finally Know Intimacy when we Know This. Home. Piercing the Veil of Reality - The Work of Bernhard Guenther. Aashirwad healing centre: Healing vs. Acceptance – The Energy Dynamics behind any Healing Process. In this post, I wish to share my understanding of the energy movements during any healing process, be it conventional or non-conventional.
12 Methods to Unplug from the Matrix. Why Expansion of Consciousness triggers the Sh*t out of us - Wake Up Experience. Free your Mind: Dropping all Labels - Wake Up Experience. The Innerversity of Divine Perfection. A Reason why Thoughts Manifest in Your Life. The brain cannot distinguish between a real experience and an imagined experience.
As long as the imagined experience creates an emotion in your brain, it will pave a neural pathway. Emotions are certain mixes of neurotransmitters, and neurotransmitters make neural pathways from the neurons firing at that moment. Say for example that you repeatedly imagine someone walking towards you on the street and this stranger jumps you with a knife. If it is vividly imagined, your body will start pumping cortisol and adrenaline. These will together pave a neural pathway that link strangers walking towards you with danger and the possibility of death. Acceptance and Surrender - Die Before You Die. Disclaimer: I am not saying you should kill yourself.
Allow me to explain. By surrendering to what is, in this moment – not fighting and resisting it – I die before I die. Total acceptance of what is already accepted into existence by existence itself. To be or not to be… the Creator of your Reality – Quantum Teachings. Intuition Is The Highest Form Of Intelligence. I AM Academy. Pamela Kribbe. Architecting Soul Mission.
LoveHasWon.org – Alternative Media & Spiritual Services. I AM Avatar I Spiritual Advancement & Self Realization I Teachings of Tiara Kumara. Humans are Waking Up: For First Time in Recorded History, Schumann Resonance Jumping to 36+ Living on LIGHT Welcome. The High Path of the Mystic Rose. Galactic Connection. “We Are Living In The Most Important Time In The History Of The Universe” Dolores Cannon Discusses Our Current Paradigm. Dolores Cannon’s career has spanned over four decades, during which time she has worked with thousands of clients in regressive hypnotherapy sessions.
With over 17 published books on the subject, Dolores Cannon can easily be considered one of the world’s most sought-after professionals in the field. Popular subject matter touched upon in her numerous books includes: past lives, extraterrestrials, life on other planets, energy healing, famous historic figures such as Nostradamus and Jesus, abductions, and more.
Thick Skin Makes For Lousy Sex – Caitlin Johnstone. Stop putting armor on that fancy suit, love.The plate mail,it clashes with your eyes.
The world is not asking youto be tough,to be disengaged,to be pulled back from the shit show,to be numb to the psychic screaming of chainsawed treesand finless sharks. The world does not need one more leaned-back pontificator,one more dissociated intellectual,one more slowly decaying know-it-all,one more dispassionate bloviator,one more sexless, artless thinkbrain,one more unfeeling scribe of the left hemisphere. The world needs your heart.It needs your guts.It needs your passion plugged inthrough the soles of your feetand connected to each gasping fish. Thick skin makes for lousy sex, love.Art cannot pour through that breastplate. The Danger in Fake Positivity and Spiritual Bypassing. What Psychedelics and Entrepreneurship Taught Me About Owning the Power of Anger.
Ego Death: The Obliteration of the Self and the Experience of Enlightenment. Waking up is an endless losing what you think you know, like a wave of destruction that leaves nothing, but what is true. —Unmani Death is a word that we humans usually associate with darkness, mourning, decay and general creepiness. We spend our entire lives running away from, avoiding and denying the fact that we will someday physically die. However, the death that I’ll be talking about in this article isn’t the typical kind of death we fear. On Spiritual Bypassing and Relationship - Science and Nonduality Science and Nonduality. Spiritual bypassing is a term I coined to describe a process I saw happening in the Buddhist community I was in, and also in myself.
Although most of us were sincerely trying to work on ourselves, I noticed a widespread tendency to use spiritual ideas and practices to sidestep or avoid facing unresolved emotional issues, psychological wounds, and unfinished developmental tasks.