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Rob Ager's film analysis page HOW MY DIGITAL DOWNLOAD PROCESS WORKS IF USING A GMAIL ACCOUNT WHEN ORDERING You can set up a free Gumroad account first as Gmail (on rare occasions these days) sometimes blocks receipt emails from coming through. With an account your ordered files are placed in your Gumroad library and can be downloaded from there. Follow me on Twitter and Facebook I also have a series of short text based articles and reviews of films on my AGER ON FILM blog Dozens more of my articles and videos on other subjects can be viewed here DISCOUNT SETS (UP TO 70% OFF) Available until 1st November If you would like to submit a request for a particular film to be reviewed feel free to contact me., but check the FAQ section of the site first as several popular requests are already listed there.

How To Tell If Somebody Loves You Somebody loves you if they pick an eyelash off of your face or wet a napkin and apply it to your dirty skin. You didn’t ask for these things, but this person went ahead and did it anyway. They don’t want to see you looking like a fool with eyelashes and crumbs on your face. They notice these things. Somebody loves you if they assume the role of caretaker when you’re sick. Somebody loves you if they call you out on your bullshit. Somebody loves you if they don't mind the quiet. Somebody loves you if they want you to be happy, even if that involves something that doesn't benefit them. Somebody loves you if they can order you food without having to be told what you want. Somebody will always love you.

Brown Penny by William Butler Yeats Saturday Sep. 24, 2011 Listen Download E-mail Share Brown Penny by William Butler Yeats I whispered, 'I am too young,' And then, 'I am old enough'; Wherefore I threw a penny To find out if I might love. "Brown Penny" by William Butler Yeats, from Brown Penny. It's the birthday of Gothic writer Horace Walpole (books by this author), born in London (1717). It was in a letter to a friend that Walpole referenced a happy, accidental discovery, calling it "serendipity." It may not have, had Walpole not distinguished himself beyond letter writing. But Walpole's obsession with Gothic wasn't limited to literature. It's the birthday of Muppets creator Jim Henson, born James Maury Henson in Greenville, Mississippi (1936). Henson continued making puppets, which he called Muppets, for commercials. Henson, though, had always imagined his Muppets could have an audience far broader than just little kids, and he booked them a gig on another new show, this one called Saturday Night Live.

Book Review: Miss Peregrine's Home for Peculiar Children When my brother gave me an Amazon gift card for my birthday, I did something I never do: I bought a book without reading it first. (Usually I read library books, and then buy the ones I know I'll read again.) After finishing Miss Peregrine's Home for Peculiar Children, I'm glad I took the leap. I won't summarize the plot for you here, but suffice to say this is a YA fantasy supplemented with darkly intriguing vintage photos like the one above. I didn't learn until finishing the book that almost all are actual vintage photos (a few slightly modified), and were not made specifically for the story. This was quite the revelation, and I found myself going back and looking at each photo again, marveling at how seamlessly the author, Ransom Riggs, was able to weave them into the storyline. From the description and cover images I was afraid this was going to be a horror story. So, if you like young adult fiction (and after Harry Potter, who doesn't?) Wow.

10 No-Fail First-Date Conversations [Editor’s note: This may be advice for men, but women can follow all of these talking points, too!] So you finally gathered enough courage to go talk to the cute redhead who caught your eye, but your friends aren't impressed just yet. You finally develop the backbone to ask her out, and now your friends are impressed. They ask where you plan to take her out, and, more importantly, what you're going to talk about on that nerve-racking first date. Number 10: Avoid her pastGenerally speaking, one should never ask about past lovers on a first date. Number 9: Got any brothers or sisters? Number 8: Traveled anywhere special? Number 7: Drinks, anyone? Number 6: Any career plans? Number 5: How's your job? Number 4: Got any friends? Number 3: Free time frolickingDoes she Rollerblade, collect stamps or dance? Get TalkingUse these topic ideas as a general guide. More from iVillage Canada: Where Are the (Normal) Single Men Hiding? WATCH: How to Read Body Language: Simple Signs He's Into You Like this?

This Is How You Love An Introvert Make eye contact as frequently as possible. You should learn to know each earthy rim of her irises better than your own, so that when she doesn’t talk, you can at least understand the language of her glare. Ask her questions. Touch her. Do not confuse her patience with tolerance. When you fight, do not expect her to crack. Do not start a Cold War; muteness has always been her defense. When she chooses to wear the red scarf instead of the seven other brown, black and grey ones hanging in the closet next to it, let her know how beautiful it is to see her in color. Do not, though, lose yourself for her. When you see her, smile.

www.hgpartnership.com Why Self-Compassion Trumps Self-Esteem In this incredibly competitive society of ours, how many of us truly feel good about ourselves? I remember once, as a freshman in college, after spending hours getting ready for a big party, I complained to my boyfriend that my hair, makeup, and outfit were woefully inadequate. He tried to reassure me by saying, “Don’t worry, you look fine.” Juan Estey “Fine? The desire to feel special is understandable. Not very well. How can we grow if we can’t acknowledge our own weaknesses? Continually feeding our need for positive self-evaluation is a bit like stuffing ourselves with candy. The result is often devastating. And of course, the goalposts for what counts as “good enough” seem always to remain out of reach. Another way So what’s the answer? When I first came across the idea of “self-compassion,” it changed my life almost immediately. I remember talking to my new fiancé, Rupert, who joined me for the weekly Buddhist group meetings, and shaking my head in amazement. An island of calm

A to Z : Join the Resistance: Fall in Love Falling in love is the ultimate act of revolution, of resistance to today's tedious, socially restrictive, culturally constrictive, humanly meaningless world. Love transforms the world. Where the lover formerly felt boredom, he now feels passion. Where she once was complacent, she now is excited and compelled to self-asserting action. The world which once seemed empty and tiresome becomes filled with meaning, filled with risks and rewards, with majesty and danger. Life for the lover is a gift, an adventure with the highest possible stakes; every moment is memorable, heartbreaking in its fleeting beauty. Love makes it possible for individuals to connect to others in a meaningful way—it impels them to leave their shells and risk being honest and spontaneous together, to come to know each other in profound ways. In this sense love is subversive, because it poses a threat to the established order of our modern lives. Love even poses a threat to our society itself.

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