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20 Things to Start Doing in Your Relationships

20 Things to Start Doing in Your Relationships

50 Things Everyone Should Know by Mark and Angel Self-reliance is a vital key to living a healthy, productive life. To be self-reliant one must master a basic set of skills, more or less making them a jack of all trades. While not totally comprehensive , here is a list of 50 things everyone should know how to do. 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. 11. 12. 13. 14. 15. 16. 17. 18. 19. 20. 21. 22. 23. Read the rest of the article

70 Things Every Computer Geek Should Know. | Arrow Webzine The term ‘geek’, once used to label a circus freak, has morphed in meaning over the years. What was once an unusual profession transferred into a word indicating social awkwardness. As time has gone on, the word has yet again morphed to indicate a new type of individual: someone who is obsessive over one (or more) particular subjects, whether it be science, photography, electronics, computers, media, or any other field. A geek is one who isn’t satisfied knowing only the surface facts, but instead has a visceral desire to learn everything possible about a particular subject. How to become a real computer Geek? Little known to most, there are many benefits to being a computer geek. You may get the answer here: The Meaning of Technical Acronyms 1. One of the best list of default passwords. 1A. 2. If you rolled your eyes here, that is a good thing. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. 11. 12. 13. 14. 15. 16. 17. 18. 19. 20. 21.

Unusual Experiment Gives People a Third Arm Arvid Guterstam, a doctoral student, conducts experiments aimed at tricking the brain into believing the body has three arms. If you’ve ever felt like you needed an extra hand around the house, a bizarre new study may have found a way to make it possible. Researchers at the Karolinska Institute in Stockholm conducted an unusual experiment aimed at creating the illusion — and physical sensation — of having a third arm. In five separate laboratory experiments, 154 volunteers were seated with their hands on a table and a rubber arm was placed next to their right arm. A sheet covered their shoulders and elbows, creating the illusion that the person had three arms. The scientists then gently brushed the real and fake hands. In one part of the experiment, both the real hands were “threatened” with a knife after the brushing exercise. Mr. Mr. “The fact that it does work tells us something very deep about how our perceptual systems operate,’’ he wrote in an e-mail.

Win-Win Negotiation - Negotiation Skills from MindTools Finding a Fair Compromise Learn what makes a good negotiator, with James Manktelow & Amy Carlson. Do you feel that someone is continually taking advantage of you? Do you seem to have to fight your corner aggressively, or ally with others, to win the resources you need? Or do you struggle to get what you want from people whose help you need, but over whom you have little direct authority? Effective negotiation helps you to resolve situations where what you want conflicts with what someone else wants. There are different styles of negotiation, depending on circumstances. Where you do not expect to deal with people ever again and you do not need their goodwill, then it may be appropriate to "play hardball", seeking to win a negotiation while the other person loses out. Similarly, where there is a great deal at stake in a negotiation, then it may be appropriate to prepare in detail and legitimate "gamesmanship" to gain advantage. Preparing for a Successful Negotiation Style is Critical

100 Things To Do Instead Of Procrastinating On The Internet I want to stop living my life in front of a computer. As a writer, this is easier said than done, but I believe it is worth making the effort. Yes, it is perhaps a little ironic that you’re reading this online — the very place that I’m encouraging you to step away from. I’m not saying you should quit the internet; I know I couldn’t! What I’m saying is that blogs, Twitter, Facebook & all those things should be a supplement to your life, not the sum of your life. Here are 100 things you can do instead of wasting time online. 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. 11. 12. 13. 14. 15. 16.. 17. 18. 19. 20. 21. 22. 23. 24. 25. 26. 27. 28. 29. 30. 31. 32. 33. 34. 35. 36. 37. 38. 39. 40. 41. 42. 43. 44. 45. 46. 47. 48. 49. 50. 51. 52. 53. 54. 55. 56. 57. 58. 59. 60. 61. 62. 63. 64. 65. 66. 67. 68. 69. 70. 71. 72. 73. 74. 75. 76. 77. 78. 79. 80. 81. 82. 83. 84. 85. 86. 87. 88. 89. 90. 91. 92. 93. 94. 95. 96. 97. 98. 99. 100.

Self-Compassion How to Negotiate like an Indian — 7 Rules Guess who won? Indians have founded more engineering and technology companies in the U.S. during the past decade than immigrants from Britain, China, Taiwan and Japan combined (Source: Where The Engineers Are, Vivek Wadhwa, 2007). Incredible. The entrepreneurial abilities of Indians in general has amazed me for years. Two weeks ago, I saw a screening of the film 2 Million Minutes, a new comparative documentary that examines education in the US, China, and India. Lo and behold, it contained this great little description on one of the greatest skills Indians bring to the table: Negotiation. In India, every transaction — EVERY transaction — is negotiated. As our guide Vishnu explained, “In India, we bargain to the level of the individual vegetable purchase.” Hotmail founder Sabeer Bhatia, a CA transplant from Bangalore, credited the bargaining skills he learned in vegetable markets at home for getting Microsoft to push its acquisition price for his company from $160 million to $400 million.

Banh Mi Battle | Vietnamese Sandwich Banh Mi Recipes Vietnamese Banh Mi sandwiches have an endless variety of options for fillings. This black pepper pork banh mi recipe is one common type that can be found in many banh mi shops. This filling is often called “grilled pork” banh mi. Black Pepper Pork Banh Mi Recipe 1 pound of pork chops, shoulder or loin. 2 cloves crushed garlic 2 table spoons of fish sauce 2 teaspoons sugar 1-2 tablespoons fresh ground black pepper. 2 tablespoons of finely chopped shallots or onion 1/4 cup vegetable or grapeseed oil 1 teaspoon of sesame seed oil 1. 2. 3. More Vietnamese Banh Mi Sandwich Meat Recipes Charles Phan – Garlic Brine Pork recipe Food Woolf – Five Spice Chicken Banh Mi with spicy lime mayonnaise recipe My Food Geek – Pork Shoulder Banh mi recipe Gourmetish – Shrimp Banh Mi recipe Anthony Nguyen – Ground Pork Banh Mi recipe Hoi Anh Style Oven -Crisped Pork Banh Mi Sunset Magazine – Turkey Style Banh Mi Dirty Sugar Cookies – Shrimp Banh Mi Five Spice Pork “Burger” Banh Mi

When Democracy Weakens While millions of ordinary Americans are struggling with unemployment and declining standards of living, the levers of real power have been all but completely commandeered by the financial and corporate elite. It doesn’t really matter what ordinary people want. The wealthy call the tune, and the politicians dance. So what we get in this democracy of ours are astounding and increasingly obscene tax breaks and other windfall benefits for the wealthiest, while the bought-and-paid-for politicians hack away at essential public services and the social safety net, saying we can’t afford them. The poor, who are suffering from an all-out depression, are never heard from. In an Op-Ed article in The Times at the end of January, Senator John Kerry said that the Egyptian people “have made clear they will settle for nothing less than greater democracy and more economic opportunities.” When the game is rigged in your favor, you win.

5 Ways Modern Men Are Trained to Hate Women #2. We Feel Like Manhood Was Stolen from Us at Some Point Photos.com You know how every comedy has that stock character of the womanizing, amoral guy who just says what he thinks all the time, and cares only about himself? Guys love that character because he's doing what, on some level, we all wish we could do. See, every single male can remember the first time, when he was 5 or 6 years old, he showed his penis to a stranger and everybody started freaking the hell out. And, when we get nostalgic for the past, we always dress it up in some ridiculous fantasy like 300, where everybody is shirtless and screaming and hacking things with swords. Photos.com"No, just hold on. And then at some point, women took it all away. A once-great world of heroes and strength and warriors and cigars and crude jokes has been replaced by this world of grumpy female supervisors looming over our cubicle to hand us a memo about sending off-color jokes via email. #1. Do you see what I'm getting at? Via Wikipedia

The 10 Best Foods for Your Looks - Lifestyle You can slather yourself from your forehead to your pinkie toe in organic lotions, but if you think that alone will make you glow, we have some bad news. From its well documented health benefits to its undeniable impact on physical beauty, good nutrition is the pillar of every kind of healthy lifestyle. That doesn't mean you need to swear off bacon and beer or anything. The trick is finding the right balance. But with new studies coming out every month about what we should put in our mouths—not to mention the unending discovery of mysterious superfruits from deep in the forests of wherever—it can be hard to keep track of what, exactly, we should be eating. This is the tenth installment in a series inspired by No More Dirty Looks: The Truth About Your Beauty Products and the Ultimate Guide to Safe and Clean Cosmetics, a book by GOOD's features editor Siobhan O'Connor and her co-author Alexandra Spunt. Read more on their blog. Illustrations by Brianna Harden

The Myth of Joyful Parenthood Raising children is hard, and any parent who says differently is lying. Parenting is emotionally and intellectually draining, and it often requires professional sacrifice and serious financial hardship. Kids are needy and demanding from the moment of their birth to… well, forever. Don’t get me wrong. I love my children dearly, and can’t imagine my life without them. But let’s face the facts: Study after study has shown that parents, compared to adults without kids, experience lower emotional well-being — fewer positive feelings and more negative ones — and have unhappier marriages and suffer more from depression. How do we square this jarring contradiction? In the jargon of the field, this is called “cognitive dissonance” — the psychological mechanism we all use to justify our choices and beliefs and preserve our self-esteem. They recruited 80 fathers and mothers, each parent with at least one child under age 18. Eibach and Mock were testing a couple ideas. The results were clear.

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