10 Simple Things You Can Do To Support a Survivor of Emotional Abuse #6. Respect their need for solitude and quiet: Survivors of emotional abuse have spent untold hours being yelled at, berated, lied to, talked at, and put down. Emotional Abuse is something that is increasingly getting more attention in the mainstream media. Article Author: LuckyLaura Anatomy Of A Psychopath : The Neurobiological Basis Of Evil Editor’s Note: This is the first part of “Mind’s Matter”, a new series of articles by Dr. Jonathan Pararajasingham, exploring the Neurobiological basis of behaviour. “We serial killers are your sons, we are your husbands, we are everywhere.” – Ted Bundy One of the most controversial areas of research in neuroscience involves the search for biophysical causes of sadistic thought and behaviour. During its evolution, the human brain has acquired three components that progressively appeared and became superimposed, laid down one on top of the other. So the limbic system, among other functions, is effectively the emotional core of brain, with various integral parts including the amygdala (emotional response), anterior cingulate cortex (emotion formation/processing), orbitofrontal cortex (decision making) and hypothalamus (sex, hunger, thirst). THE EMOTIONAL MEMORY: Temporal Cortex and Hippocampus THE EMOTIONAL GATEWAY: Amygdala THE DECISION MAKERS: Cingulate Cortex and Prefrontal Cortex
A Structural Theory of Narcissism and Psychopathy -- Science of the Spirit -- Sott.net [T]the problem of group violence, is one of the most important issues facing society. Not only is this a most crucial topic for our American society but we are confronted with events that are occurring all over the globe, on all continents and in all countries... So said Dr. Ernest Wolf in a talk given to the International Self-Psychology Symposium in Dreieich, Germany, in May of 2001, four months before 9-11. This essay was recently brought to our attention, having been posted on the SOTT Forum for the express purpose of highlighting Wolf's description of Narcissistic Rage. Why? Well, Dr. In short, Wolf's essay amounts to little more than apologia for Narcissistic Personality Disorder and Psychopathy and only adds to the confusion of our times when the problems pressed upon humanity by such types are nothing short of catastrophic. But, like we said, Wolf has provided one heck of a description of Narcissistic Rage. Now, what does that remind you of? What can be done? How can we know this?
Healing in the Aftermath | Psychopaths and Love after being victimized by a psychopath, even if you’re doubting that right now. It can take a significant amount of time and effort, as with any major trauma, but it will happen. In addition to this page, please see the ROAD MAP. The illustration to the left shows Red Riding Hood being rescued from the Big Bad Wolf. I think it’s safe to say that for most of us, this isn’t going to happen. Once the “relationship” with the psychopath ends, we must rescue ourselves. We need the support of others after this trauma, but many of us find that support is hard to come by. Since what we’re dealing with is not the end of a regular relationship, no advice about healing after a breakup will help. None of us was “on the lookout for someone as brutal as a psychopath to systematically dismantle” the way we see ourselves, as author Sandra L. One thing a victim needs is validation. AWord About Online Forums: In the search for support and validation, many join online forums.
About Covert Emotional Manipulation | Psychopaths and Love Covert emotional manipulation occurs when a person who wants to gain power and control over you uses deceptive and underhanded tactics to change your thinking, behavior and perceptions. Emotional manipulation operates under the level of your conscious awareness. It holds you psychologically captive. Victims usually don’t realize what’s going on while it’s happening. A skilled emotional manipulator gets you to put your sense of self-worth and emotional well-being into his or her hands. How can you tell if you’re a victim? (continued below) “Five Stars. “Excellent! “Great book!! “If you’re wondering . . . This website is concerned with the most dangerous manipulators, psychopaths; but others manipulate in the much same way (such as narcissists and “pick-up artists”). These highly skilled covert manipulators are incapable of having a real relationship, and some (not all; see below) set out from day one with a plan. You’ll accept mere crumbs if that will prove your love. “”Worth your time!
Are You a Victim of Emotional Rape? “Ours were false relationships from the very beginning in which we were targeted, exploited and betrayed.” ~Donna Anderson, LoveFraud The quote above gets right to the heart of the matter of emotional rape. These were never normal relationships that started with love and then just went wrong. A psychopath may target a victim with the intent of using them and causing harm, or they may initially experience genuine attraction. In a profound act of betrayal, he or she only pretends to love (even if they start out with genuine attraction, since psychopaths don’t have the ability to love) — and does a convincing job of it — in order to gain your love and trust, which is what makes carrying out their manipulative agenda possible. The predator gets bored and devalues and abuses the victim, and needs the thrill of someone new. The victim is devastated as he or she comes to realize the psychopath’s love was never real and that they were heartlessly abused and betrayed. “Invaluable. “Five Stars.
Information about misdiagnosis and other disorders/problems related to trauma and dissociative disorders including Borderline Personality Disorder Posttraumatic Stress Disorder Many differential (alternative) diagnoses exist, including Adjustment Disorders, and Acute Stress Disorder, which has a shorter duration (under a month), Anxiety disorders and Obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), Major depressive disorder, Dissociative Disorders and Personality Disorders. Interpersonal difficulties which begin or were greatly increased, after a traumatic event may indicate PTSD since a personality disorder would have these difficulties independently of whether any trauma occurred. Acute Stress Disorder Adjustment Disorders, Panic Disorder, Dissociative Disorders, Posttraumatic Stress Disorder, Obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), Psychotic Disorders and Traumatic Brain Injury are other diagnoses which could be considered. Adjustment Disorders Major Depressive Disorder (depression), Acute Stress Disorder or PTSD and Personality Disorders can be considered as alternative diagnoses, as well as normal stress reactions. [2] Dissociative Disorders
Psychopaths' brains show differences in structure and function Images of prisoners' brains show important differences between those who are diagnosed as psychopaths and those who aren't, according to a new study led by University of Wisconsin-Madison researchers. The results could help explain the callous and impulsive anti-social behavior exhibited by some psychopaths. The study showed that psychopaths have reduced connections between the ventromedial prefrontal cortex (vmPFC), the part of the brain responsible for sentiments such as empathy and guilt, and the amygdala, which mediates fear and anxiety. Two types of brain images were collected. Diffusion tensor images (DTI) showed reduced structural integrity in the white matter fibers connecting the two areas, while a second type of image that maps brain activity, a functional magnetic resonance image (fMRI), showed less coordinated activity between the vmPFC and the amygdala. The study, which took place in a medium-security prison in Wisconsin, is a unique collaborative between three laboratories,
Identifying Victims of Narcissistic Abuse | The Exhausted Woman Too much attention is given to narcissistic behavior with little consideration offered to the victims of it. Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is clearly defined in the DSM-5. Many subtypes have been offered, books written and seminars taught. But what about the abuse some victims have suffered? Several names have been tossed around to describe what happens to these victims. Some have called it Narcissistic Victim Syndrome (NVS), Trauma-Associated Narcissistic Symptoms (TANS), or Post Traumatic Narcissism Syndrome (PTNS). Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (C-PTSD) does incorporate a limited number of the symptoms; however it is not in the DSM-5 either. Emotional, physical or sexual abuseObjectificationGaslighting and false accusationsPush-pull or splitting behaviorsAlternating raging and hovering behaviorsCrisis conditions Unfortunately, the revised definition of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) is the best option for diagnosing victims of narcissistic abuse.
Signs That You’ve Been Abused by a Narcissist | After Narcissistic Abuse Do you recognize that you’re doubting yourself more than you ever have before? Victims of narcissistic abuse often appear uncertain of themselves, constantly seeking clarification that they haven’t made a mistake or misheard something. This reactive adaptation to narcissistic abuse is because the narcissist is ALWAYS finger pointing and shifting blame to YOU for ALL of the ups & downs both in the relationship AND in the narcissist’s personal psyche. Just refer to the above explanation of self doubt and boundary transgression if you want to understand the CONFUSION that is part and parcel of narcissistic abuse. Daily boundary transgression and criss crossing of responsibility starts to wear on even the clearest minded of targets. It’s confusing to KNOW that you aren’t responsible for someone else’s behavior, thinking and feeling but to be CONSTANTLY SCOLDED for behaving, thinking and feeling as if you ARE. It’s crazy-making and a narcissist purposefully causes this confusion. Avoidance –
Codependency & Victim Blaming: Why Abuse Is Always Wrong Regardless of whether you're codependent, insecure, naive, vulnerable, or a perfectly healthy human being, abuse and exploitation are always wrong. If you're researching psychopathy, sociopathy, and narcissism, chances are, you've also come across this term called codependency. So what exactly is codependency? Article Author: Peace The psychopath and the icchantika In the Mahaparinirvana Sutra the "icchantikas" (i.e., a species of being who can never attain Buddhahood) are deeply evil. They don't believe that all beings have the Buddha-nature. They wish to harm others. They take pride in their twisted views, and live lives contrary to the Buddhist precepts. Especially, the icchantikas conceal the evils they have done some of which are grave in nature. Nor are they capable of repenting their sins. "For example, such actions as digging the ground, mowing the grass, felling trees, cutting up corpses, ill-speaking, and lashing do not call forth karmic returns. As far as Bodhisattvas are concerned, they still have great compassion for all beings, including even the antihuman like icchantikas. Turning our attention to the modern world, it is not difficult to lump the icchantika up with the psychopath who lacks any measure of conscience and empathy—a person whom we might characterize as being “cold and calculating”. Permit me to stop there.
10 Warning Signs of Word Salad When they’re feeling threatened or bored, psychopaths will often use what’s called “word salad” as an attempt to regain control over you. This article is from a later chapter of the Psychopath Free book (click to view on Amazon). Or find in Barnes & Noble stores eveywhere! When they’re feeling threatened or bored, psychopaths will often use what’s called “word salad” in an attempt to keep your mind occupied. Article Author: Peace
No, You're Not A Psychopath Too often, survivors come to the horrifying (and incorrect) realization that they might be a psychopath. Don't worry, you're not alone! Too often, survivors come to the very disconcerting conclusion that they might be a psychopath. After months of studying the topic and thinking about the experience, I think it’s only natural that you begin to question yourself and your own good nature. Article Author: Peace