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Margaret Paul, Ph.D.: Self-Sabotaging in Work or Relationships? Why?
Do you sometimes find that you sabotage yourself in your work or your relationships? Have you wondered why you would do that? One of the things that may help you understand your self-sabotaging behavior is to recognize that you are actually trying to protect yourself rather than sabotage yourself. We all have a survival part that is programmed into us -- which I call our ego-wounded self. However, many of us have been programmed to go into the stress response when we fear getting emotionally hurt, as opposed to being threatened with physical harm. Why Do You Self-Sabotage? Below are some of the beliefs that might trigger your fears or your resistance to taking loving action in your own behalf: Relationships: I'm not lovable. For many people, the fear of rejection and the fear of engulfment keep them out of relationships. Work: Your fears are keeping you from taking loving action in your own behalf, but these fears are based on false beliefs, such as: How Do You Self-Sabotage?
The fine line in storytelling | Response Crafting
Image credit: Global Patriot Story-telling is founded on the art of illustration and embellishment; it depends on colorful language and imagery. There is, however, a fine line between good story-telling and outright bullshitting. We should all strive to have something unique about our own story, so many of us find something and make it into a major theme in our personal history. Struggle or “rags to riches” works particularly well for things like this. (e.g., Stephen King and Jim Carrey both used to be janitors, J.K. Interesting beginnings make our story a little more worthy of retelling. One such example is this: every once in a great while, I hear from people that they “used to be homeless.” What do you mean by that, exactly? As in: “just how homeless? And this is not to discount homelessness – in fact, quite the opposite. And it is not necessarily to say that a few days or one month of homelessness is “less” homeless, or qualifies at a lower score on the homelessness scale. “Oh, wow….
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16 Things I Wish They Had Taught Me in School
I am 28 now. I don’t think about the past or regret things much these days. But sometimes I wish that I had known some of things I have learned over the last few years a bit earlier. That perhaps there had been a self-improvement class in school. And in some ways there probably was. Because some of these 16 things in this article a teacher probably spoke about in class. Some of it would probably not have stuck in my mind anyway. But I still think that taking a few hours from all those German language classes and use them for some personal development classes would have been a good idea. So here are 16 things I wish they had taught me in school (or I just would like to have known about earlier). 1. This is one of the best ways to make better use of your time. So a lot of what you do is probably not as useful or even necessary to do as you may think. You can just drop – or vastly decrease the time you spend on – a whole bunch of things. 2. You can do things quicker than you think. 3. 4. 5.
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100 Terrific Self-Learning Sites to Boost Your Resume During the Recession
100 Terrific Self-Learning Sites to Boost Your Resume During the Recession In this recession, job security is waning and the prospects for work are getting slimmer, so if you’re on the hunt for a job, it’s a good idea to boost your resume. Self-learning is a great way to enhance your knowledge and resume so that you’ll have a better chance of getting hired. Here you’ll find a variety of sites that offer self learning, including technology, art, and business, many at the university level. Universities Use the open educational resources from these universities to get a high quality education for free. General These sites offer learning in a wide array of topics. Sources of Information These websites are great places to research and pick up practical information. Technology Make sure your technology skills and knowledge are up to date with the help of these learning sites. Art Develop your artistic side using the resources from these self learning websites. Language & Literature Science Math Creativity
Life After College by Jenny Blake
Written by Melissa Anzman Impatience is a virtue… said the overly ambitious employee with their eyes set on their next move. Ambition is a great characteristic to have, especially early on in your career. But while you are busy being ambitious, you tend to miss important lessons and skillsets around you. I know the narrowing of focus first-hand. I ignored the small things, the lessons, the connections, and the work. My ambition scared people. Only as I look back can I see how the approach I took wasn’t the best one, it wasn’t the most efficient one to move up. How to Stop Being Overly Ambitious and Still Move Up Create a Clear Map of What You Need to Learn in Each Role For every job you take or create, you need to go into it with a clear set of skills and knowledge that you want to learn from the position. Each job can teach you something – usually it’s a lot of somethings. Fully Understand Your Why I talk about “the why” a lot when it comes to your career – in general and in specifics.
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Top 40 Useful Sites To Learn New Skills
The web is a powerful resource that can easily help you learn new skills. You just have to know where to look. Sure, you can use Google, Yahoo, or Bing to search for sites where you can learn new skills , but I figured I’d save you some time. Here are the top 40 sites I have personally used over the last few years when I want to learn something new. Hack a Day - Hack a Day serves up fresh hacks (short tutorials) every day from around the web and one in-depth ‘How-To hack’ guide each week.eHow - eHow is an online community dedicated to providing visitors the ability to research, share, and discuss solutions and tips for completing day-to-day tasks and projects.Wired How-To Wiki - Collaborate with Wired editors and help them build their extensive library of projects, hacks, tricks and tips.
Creative Gibberish
Divergent thinking – more than a mere tool – is a technique very commonly used on creative activities because it allows us to expand our brains a little bit, by looking for new opportunities and ways of getting things done. So, from the problem – or whatever triggers your creativity – to the solution, instead of taking obvious steps and walking on a straight line, you force yourself to see different aspects of the situation, using unusual points of view, no matter how abstract of absurd they seem at the first place. This can be done by allowing everyone to think more freely while working on the task, gathering ideas that have the slightest relation to the problem itself rather than looking straight for a practical solution. Though it might sound like a waste of time, many corporations have found appealing answers to their problems by using such method. Another misconception around the divergent thinking is that the creative process should be all about it.
