How To Stay Focused: The Four Basic Requirements Focusing is a lost skill, a casualty of the 21st century. People bury their noses in iDistracted and Distractdroid devices, practically salivating at the notifications which confirm their importance. Instead of commanding their day, they are controlled by their uncontrolled lust to be distracted. And what purpose has distraction traditionally served? Escapism. You may not be an alcoholic, but how much of your dissatisfaction is drowned with the web, Facebook, TV, text messaging, or video games? Distraction Is The Plague, And Focus The Cure Focus is power. Who wants you to keep on the weight? There are certain subconscious thoughts and ideas you have that can make focusing extremely difficult, so what we need to do is pull those subconscious thoughts into the spotlight and address them. There are four basic requirements for staying focused. 1. Think about it. Sometimes, I hesitate to write. To focus, give yourself a free pass on failing at the task. 2. 3. 4. (photo by Raccatography)
15 Best Ways to Get Over a Breakup Breakups suck. They’re uncomfortable, painful, and affect us immensely — even if we’re the party walking away. Ending a connection is never an easy experience. Without a doubt the most difficult part is coping after the breakup. How do we deal with our immediate feelings of insecurity, jealousy, loneliness, and self-loathing? How do we stop ourselves from spiraling into depression? Breakups can screw people up for a long time. Cut all contact. All these points were written to help you get over a breakup in the healthiest way possible. You don’t need to impress them. Ready to jump back into the dating scene?
10 Easy To Read Books That Make You Smarter ← LMLRN There could be as many books written as opinions on which to read. This list is not at all exhaustive, but serves as a starting point for the inquisitive mind. These are all modern, easy to read books that don’t fill your brain with easily forgotten facts, but a way of thinking about the universe that makes you smarter. So, without further ado: 1. Carl Sagan’s Cosmos, tells the story of 15 billion years of cosmic history like no one else can. 2. Outliers brings a crucial point that there is logic behind why some people become successful, and it has more to do with legacy and opportunity than high IQ. 3. This is the greatest guide, to what we all should have learned in high school and beyond. 4. Where do morals come from? 5. Daniel Kahneman presents the brain as we have never seen it. 6. The lesson of this book is that we should be leery of trusting society’s or common wisdom. 7. 8. 9. Physics can often be wrongly marred with hatred for its complexity and day to day social application.
The secrets of body language: why you should never cross your arms again 7K Flares Filament.io 7K Flares × Body language is older and more innate for us as humans than even language or facial expressions. That’s why people born blind can perform the same body language expressions as people who can see. They come pre-programmed with our brains. I’ve always been incredibly fascinated with body language and how it helps us achieve our goals in life better. The power of body language is probably best described by Amy Cuddy’s famous quote: “Our nonverbals govern how other people think and feel about us.” If you are anything like me, then you’ve had a healthy obsession with body language for some time. Here is an insight of the latest studies and how we can use body language to our advantage in every day life. Your body expresses emotion better than your face We all grow up learning about how to deal with each other based on facial expressions. Researchers from Princeton performed a very simple experiment. And the results couldn’t be any more startling: 1.) 2.) 3.) 4.)
The How Of Happiness: 10 Ways To Be Happy ← LMLRN Happiness is not some magical state of mind that we’re born with, blessed with, or lucky enough to stumble upon. It is a way of being that each of us can attain. When it comes to advice on how to be happy, the internet is filled with opinion and pseudoscience based on experiences and feelings. Religious teachings, our grandmothers, uncles, blogs, and television shows all have an opinion too. Some of the advice is questionable and some is even contradictory. This is why we need advice that has been researched and tested. The international bestseller The How of Happiness: A New Approach to Getting the Life You Want by Sonja Lyubomirsky, Ph.D., a professor of psychology at the University of California is the best self-help book from a reputable scientist whose advice is based on the best experimental data. Now that all that is done, lets get down to the actual purpose of this article; to give you the 10 Steps To Getting The Happiness You Want. 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. Further Reading:
Get Hired I was recently asked for interview advice. 1. These are guidelines and examples. Have I disclaimered myself enough? Interview Objective: Join the 180° Club What You Hopefully Did Months Ago Because I GUARANTEE This Will Happen Before Your Interview What You Should Do Leading Up to the Interview What You Should Bring The Suit This is Not a Party "Fashionably Late" Does Not Exist The Handshake How Enthusiastic You Should Appear Question Category Overview: What I (the Interviewer) am Really Trying to Figure Out Tell Me About Yourself What are Your Strengths? What are Your Weaknesses? Your Phone Describe a Time You Had Difficulty Working with a Coworker. What Was Your Biggest Mistake? Describe Your Ideal Workplace What Do You Know About this Company? Why do You Want this Job? Do You Have Any Questions for Me? Lunch: Price Considerations Lunch: Limit Your Pickiness Lunch: Appropriate BAC Level Lunch: Very Important Additional Consideration What to Remember Regarding a Thank You Email
21 Ways You Should Take Advantage Of Your 20s 1. Don’t feel the need to respond to every text message, phone call, and email the second it reaches you. Once upon a time, it took longer than a minute to reach someone. People used stamps and envelopes; they had answering machines they didn’t check for hours, sometimes days. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. 11. 12. 13. 15. 16. 17. 18. 19. 20. 21. All information provided in this article is for reference purposes only. Tawas Untuk Ketiak Putih =) | Silampuneon Salam, Tawas Untuk Ketiak Putih =) Huhu...ramai yang tanya dan drop komen pasal tawas yang i guna tu kan ? Okay..meh saya jawab.. Tawas ni beli kat mana ? So stop laa guna deodorant yanga da kat pasaran tu k.. sebab deodorant tu akan buat ketiak korang lebih melekit..walaupun bau wangi..tapi ketiak korang akan berdaki dan hitammm..banyak chemical ..pakailah tawas =) Mood : lepak...hehe
6 Harsh Truths That Will Make You a Better Person 2017, motherfuckers. Yeah! LET'S DO THIS. "Do what?" you ask. I DON'T KNOW. Feel free to stop reading this if your career is going great, you're thrilled with your life, and you're happy with your relationships. Via Upscalehype.com For the rest of you, I want you to try something: Name five impressive things about yourself. Note: I originally posted this in December of 2012, and to date it has drawn more than 20 million page views and been shared on Facebook more than half a million times. #6. Getty Let's say that the person you love the most has just been shot. Getty"OK, which one is the injured one?" You ask, "Are you a doctor?" The guy says, "No." You say, "But you know what you're doing, right? At this point the guy becomes annoyed. Confused, you say, "How does any of that fucking matter when my [wife/husband/best friend/parent] is lying here bleeding! Now the man becomes agitated -- why are you being shallow and selfish? Getty"I don't get it. Getty"Here's that shit you needed. #5. #4.
17 Tips to Mastering Conversation With New People That kind of self-doubt can be paralyzing. But you’re not alone. Each week I get dozens of questions like, “Nick, can you please just tell me exactly what to say? That would really help me get started.” I wish I could provide you guys with a miracle fix but then I’d just be another scammy marketer. Conversations are dynamic and unique. Let go of the idea that a discussion is a mathematical formula. The answer is to become socially confident through real-world experience. What I can provide you with are proven guidelines to make those experiences easier and more successful. Here are my 17 tips towards mastering conversation with new people. Be genuinely interested in them.
7 Reasons Why You Will Never Do Anything Amazing With Your Life — Life Learning 1 :: Because You Have Not Failed Enough Because you are comfortable in your mediocrity; because you choose not to try. Because it is easier to talk about learning that new (programming?) language as opposed to actually learning it. Because you think everything is too hard or too complicated so you will just “sit this one out”, or maybe you’ll, “do-it-tomorrow”! Because you hate your job but won’t get a new one; because it is easy to reject rejection. Because while you’re sitting around failing to try, I am out there trying to fail, challenging myself, learning new things and failing as fast as possible. Because as I fail, I learn, and then adjust my course to make sure my path is always forward. 2 :: Because You Care What Others Think About You Because you have to fit in. Because you believe that being different is only cool if you’re different in the same way that other people are different. Because you are afraid to embrace your true self for fear of how the world will see you.