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75 Ways To Stay Unhappy Forever

75 Ways To Stay Unhappy Forever
Dale Carnegie once said, “It isn’t what you have, or who you are, or where you are, or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It’s what you think about.” I don’t think anyone could say it any better than that. I’ve watched so many friends search tirelessly for happiness by changing jobs, moving to new cities, pursuing intimate relationships, and tweaking all sorts of other external factors in their lives. And guess what? They’re still unhappy. So with that in mind, here are 75 ways to stay unhappy forever. And now that you know what not to do, let me tell you a secret about happiness. In fact, according to a recent scientific study, overall levels of happiness decline from one’s teens until one’s 40s and then pick up again until they peak in one’s early 70s. Photo by: Helga Weber Related 8 Things Unhappy People Refuse to Admit “People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be.” August 29, 2013 In "Happiness" 9 Things You Do NOT Need to Be Happy September 15, 2013

Follow your heart and Life will Follow | Soul Hiker When these words of wisdom were told to me I was still a young man. The real depth behind their meaning was not apparent to me yet. Their wisdom was concealed by my unripe age. Not that they are cryptic or anything but rather because it’s one of those sayings which unfolds and reveals itself to you as your experiences in life grow and mature. There are three fundamental notions that the saying points at: 1. The lesson is simple as much it is abysmally deep: When you learn to discover your authentic self amongst socially constructed preconceptions, distorted self-images and learn to trust the natural pulse of your heart’s true desires then you will manifest them in your life. Finding your Authenticity The quest for authenticity, self-discovery, soul-searching, or call it what you like, is one of those things that has always been a popular note on anyone’s life diary. But what is really meant by authenticity or self-discovery? Building Trust Manifesting your destiny Wake up to your Life

L'influence à distance - Emingthon HilL Préparez-vous à voir vos désirs se réaliser ... Admettons que vous rencontriez une jolie fille ou un homme très séduisant, mais que, malheureusement, cette personne ne vous porte que peu ou pas d'intérêt. Grâce aux techniques extraordinaires d'influence à distance, il vous sera possible de rendre cet homme ou cette femme très amoureux de vous. Et ce n'est pas tout. Cette méthode vous donne encore bien d'autres possibilités pour obtenir ce que vous désirez, car les pouvoirs de l'influence à distance sont d'une efficacité absolue. L'argent est-il souvent au centre de vos préoccupations ? Comment en avoir plus, comment faire pour vivre mieux, plus à l'aise, ne plus avoir peur du lendemain ? Voici ce qui se passe quand une personne utilise l'influence à distance Alain M... est un jeune homme de 18 ans qui n'a que très peu de succès avec les filles, ce qui le rend fort malheureux. Une mystérieuse découverte Virginie est très amoureuse d'un homme qui la trouve laide et sans importance. ... J.

50 Life Secrets and Tips Memorize something everyday.Not only will this leave your brain sharp and your memory functioning, you will also have a huge library of quotes to bust out at any moment. Poetry, sayings and philosophies are your best options.Constantly try to reduce your attachment to possessions.Those who are heavy-set with material desires will have a lot of trouble when their things are taken away from them or lost. Possessions do end up owning you, not the other way around. Become a person of minimal needs and you will be much more content.Develop an endless curiosity about this world.Become an explorer and view the world as your jungle. Stop and observe all of the little things as completely unique events. Try new things. Read “Zen and the Art of Happiness” by Chris Prentiss.This book will give you the knowledge and instruction to be happy at all times regardless of the circumstances.

12 Little Known Laws of Karma by Raven E. Aurlineus, et al.. What is Karma? Karma is the Sanskrit word for action. It is equivalent to Newton’s law of ‘every action must have a reaction’. When we think, speak or act we initiate a force that will react accordingly. This law of cause and effect is not punishment, but is wholly for the sake of education or learning. A person may not escape the consequences of his actions, but he will suffer only if he himself has made the conditions ripe for his suffering. 1. “As you sow, so shall you reap.” 2. Life doesn’t just happen. 3. You can’t change something if you refuse to accept it.If what we see is an enemy, or someone with a character trait that we find to benegative, then we ourselves are not focused on a higher level of existence. 4. 5. Whenever there is something wrong in my life, there is something wrong in me.We mirror what surrounds us, and what surrounds us mirrors us; this is a Universal Truth.We must take responsibility for what is in our life. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. 11.

Are You Accepting Your Fate or Creating A Destiny?-Readers Q&A « *POSITIVE PROVOCATIONS* “Dreams are like stars…you may never touch them, but if you follow them they will lead you to your destiny.” Claire from United Kingdom asks a very intriguing question this week, which I will attempt to answer. Her question: Do I follow my fate or can I change my own destiny? Whats the difference between fate and destiny? My Answer: One of the primary tasks we all face is deciding whether to follow the path fate has in store for us or working on manifesting our potential and living up to our destiny. It is a solemn task that needs to be undertaken with a loving heart and sound mind. Choice Between Fate & Destiny Most people see the game of life as made up of two opposites — winning and losing. Fate is seen as what happens if you never manifest your potential … never solve the puzzle of who you are.Destiny is seen as what you create if you solve the puzzle and manifest one of the possibilities defined by your potential. Embracing Fate with Arms Wide Open Potential or The Other side of the Coin

Five Significant Steps for Reclaiming Your Life : The BridgeMaker Prepare your mind to receive the best that life has to offer . – Ernest Holmes At times, our life can feel like it is spinning out of control. We feel completely powerless and overwhelmed by the many factors and circumstances that dictate and shape how we live. During moments like these, it may be easier to give up and accept these conditions, or we can choose to surrender and keep moving forward. The good news is the act of surrendering provides us with the ability to reclaim what belongs to each one of us. Step 1: Be Selfish Step 2: Say No Step 3: Step Away Step 4: No More Excuses Step 5: Look Forward, Not Back Contrary to popular belief, it’s OK to be selfish as long as you do it in moderation. By becoming more selfish, you force yourself to consider what will make you a better person. There are many productive ways to practice being selfish. Be selfish. Once you learn how to tell people “No,” you will find you have more time to put back in your life.

88 Important Truths I’ve Learned About Life Everyone gets drilled with certain lessons in life. Sometimes it takes repeated demonstrations of a given law of life to really get it into your skull, and other times one powerful experience drives the point home once forever. Here are 88 things I’ve discovered about life, the world, and its inhabitants by this point in my short time on earth. 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. 11. 12. 13. 14. 15. 16. 17. 18. 19. 20. 21. 22. 23. 24. 25. 26. 27. 28. 29. 30. 31. 32. 33. 34. 35. 36. 37. 38. 39. 40. 41. 42. 43. 44. 45. 46. 47. 48. 49. 50. 51. 52. 53. 54. 55. 56. 57. 58. 59. 60. 61. 62. 63. 64. 65. 66. 67. 68. 69. 70. 71. 72. 73. 74. 75. 76. 77. 78. 79. 80. 81. 82. 83. 84. 85. 86. 87. 88. Photo by Philgarlic Have a lot on your mind? Everyday mindfulness has transformed my life, and the lives of many others.

Why You Can Never Really Fail, Whatever Happens: A Guest Post from John Sherry | Teeny Tiny Pieces Today’s guest post is from my friend John Sherry, writer at The 100% You blog. John is passionate about living his life to the fullest, and helping you to do the same. If you’ve been tip-toeing around the blogsphere quietly, today is your day to jump in and leave a comment for John. He always engages with a smile! Please make John welcome ~We’re all so scared of failure. The dreaded ‘F’ word. To many failure is a personal rejection by the world or by life itself. It’s easy to see why. Relationships might not have worked or love never permanently came to stay. But, actually this is proof, if ever you needed it, that you’re not failing but gradually and steadily winning and that any time soon it’s all going to wonderfully come together. Here are the precise reasons why you can never really fail whatever happens. 1. Ask any sporting star and they will tell you that their defeats helped them hone their talents to become a champion. When you lose, you learn. 2. 3. You may have just been saved.

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