Les 400 culs - Voir du sexe : traumatisant ? - Libération.fr Il existe une expression pour désigner ceux et celles qui ont découvert le sexe à l’écran : les «natifs pornographiques». Ils sont tombés dedans quand ils étaient petits. Qu’est-ce que ces images leur ont fait ? A cette question difficile, quelques tentatives de réponse. Ils ont vu leurs premières scènes de sexe au cinéma sur grand écran, à la télévision ou en téléchargement libre sur internet. Première constatation : il y a un âge où ce que l’on voit ne laisse pas de trace, n’étonne pas, ne procure ni intérêt ni inquiétude. Deuxième constatation : il y a un âge où brusquement les yeux s’ouvrent et, bizarrement, on a beau s’y être préparé… On a beau avoir lu des livres sur la sexualité et bien compris les histoires de petite graine du papa dans la maman… Les images animées choquent. Troisième constatation : lorsque, pour une raison inconnue, on devient apte à entrer dans la dimension sexuelle, cela fait l’effet d’un bouleversement. Que déduire de ces témoignages ?
ocd - exposure & response prevention Exposure and response prevention (ERP) is a treatment method available from behavioral psychologists and cognitive-behavioral therapists for a variety of anxiety disorders, especially obsessive–compulsive disorder and phobias. It is an example of an exposure therapy and was first developed by UK psychologist Victor Meyer.[1] Recent results indicate that ERP can be carried out effectively with minimal face-to-face contact between the therapist and the subject.[5] The results of a 2008 study indicate that simultaneous administration of d-cycloserine substantially improves effectiveness of exposure and response prevention.[6] Organizations[edit] Exposure and response prevention is a behavior therapy technique. Additionally, the International Obsessive Compulsive Disorder Foundation [2] provides training and recognition for training in Exposure and Response Prevention for Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. See also[edit] References[edit] Jump up ^ Meyer, V. (1966). Further reading[edit]
Le Porn la poésie Les mots traversent les âges mais peuvent parfois être esclaves de la modernité. Quand Deslogis a déposé son poème au bureau, on était bien embêté. La vidéo provenait d’un tube et son blason indiquait clairement qu’elle appartenait à John B.Root, fervent défenseur de l’art mais aussi en guerre ouverte contre les tubes depuis tant d’années. Que faire ? Mettre le poème à la poubelle ? Publier la vidéo avec l’assurance qu’elle saute en moins de 24h ? Après l’taf elle aspire Jasmine À s’faire un stick. Mystère… Avant l’amour et ça c’est sûr Jasmine effrite un shit afghan ou Périphérique … Et voilà qu’elle s’excite Et signe avec le matinal Un contrat d’existence, un qui l’irrigue Ainsi qu’une algue D’Amsterdam. Mais d’ailleurs est Jasmine Et souples sont Ses naïves virgules Et souples sont de l’échine au menton Ses rimes. C’est alors qu’elle applique on ne sait d’où Son contrat d’existendre en 2-3 mouvements, puis Soixante-neufement On fume. D’après mon aphte elle aspire, Jasmine ! De s’endormir
modern male malaise - aom A few weeks ago, I caught the premiere of the Discovery’s Channel’s “Human Planet,” a television show about the ways people have adapted to survive in Earth’s most extreme environments. Perhaps a better name for the program would have been “Man Planet,” as the show primarily chronicled the incredible feats of men around the world–men the tentacles of civilization have barely grazed. There were men mining sulfur from an active volcano; men diving dozens of feet and holding their breath for five minutes at a time to spear fish on the ocean floor; men initiating their sons into manhood by teaching them how to train eagles to hunt. Even seemingly pedestrian tasks like taking your kids to school were fraught with danger; a father escorted his children on a 60 mile journey through the Himalayas, watching for potential avalanches and walking over a frozen river that could have cracked open at any moment. I was immediately taken in by the show’s spectacular cinematography.
PORNCEPTUAL pride & prejudice & porn Kearneysville, WV. Recently at the University of New Hampshire, Vice President Joe Biden announced new federal guidelines for fighting sexual assault on college campuses. Biden’s speech included such truisms as “no means no” and “rape is rape is rape.” He continued: Look guys – all you guys in the audience – no matter what a girl does, no matter how she’s dressed, no matter how much she’s had to drink – it’s never, never, never, never, never okay to touch her without her consent….This doesn’t make you a man – it makes you a coward. True enough. In a recent broadcast of NPR’s On Point titled “Are College Campuses a Hostile Environment for Women?” Of course, the issue of rape on college campuses gets fuzzy when the subject of “date rape” enters the picture. Nevertheless, the advent of the so-called hook-up culture has fostered expectations among young men that encounters with co-eds naturally lead to no-strings-attached sex. Which leads me to Jane Austen.
Print's not dead: this website will buy your old porn mags Have you ever brought some old porn – you know, the kind that’s printed or comes on a VHS tape – and not known how to get rid of it? Or even worse, tragically inherited it from a recently deceased relative? Well, thanks to London-based website webuyanyporn.com, you no longer have to. A former Holloway sex shop businessman set up the porn buying site – and as the web address reads, they really do buy any porn (and from any era as well). According to the site, the business is happy to purchase your lightly jizz-splattered mags, DVDs, books, photos and even amateur and home movies. They say, "as long as it’s legal we’ll buy it". The website launched nine months ago and has been on the rise since as more of the UK sell off their vintage erotica. “Everybody I’ve purchased books and magazines off goes away very happy. The offline porn industry may have seen a decline in sales since the internet took over, but that hasn’t stopped start-ups taking on the market.
ms - confessions of a manipulator Photo by Sara Lando As a child, I didn’t quite fit in the role of your average kid growing up. I guess you could say I was a typical sensitive, quiet child—a “Mama’s boy” if you will. I enjoyed music, reading, knitting, and skipping with the girls, while my older brother played pee-wee hockey, little league baseball, and collected sports memorabilia. Evenings at our home usually meant my brother and father watching Hockey Night in Canada, while my mother and I would watch The Love Boat, Dallas, or whatever other cheesy 80′s television program was playing at the time. Many evenings and several hockey games later, my brother and father got to use the big color TV in the living-room, while mom and I got stuck watching the little black and white in the bedroom. And from that night on, he constantly reminded me to stop crying, stuck it up and to be “more like your older brother”. I remember the walks Mom and I used to go on after the spring melt. In reality, it was all junk. ~Matt Update:
How to make a kick ass feminist porno Erika Lust knows how to make great porn. With a refreshingly feminist viewpoint, a progressive and acclaimed filmography, numerous awards and great visuals, the Swedish director is pushing boundaries on and off the screen. Speaking with Dazed earlier this year she said, "We are in huge need of seeing female sexuality portrayed in a different way, and to see ourselves as protagonists of the stories, not only as vehicles that men use to get their sexuality out of it.” This defining element is key to Lust’s work, and that of feminist porn — a genre of the adult entertainment industry that condemns the objectification of women and encourages them to embrace sexual equality, diversity and, of course, their own pleasures – unashamedly. Lust’s ability to break free from the stereotypes and clichés that have plagued porn is just a slice of her manifesto. Diversity is key when trying to break the porn mould, and Lust prides herself on an ability to embrace this.
manipulative relationships Signs You're in a Manipulative RelationshipPosted Mar 16th 2011 at 9:33AM by Colleen Oakley 6825527921926AlamyChristine Donovan knew something wasn't right in her relationship when she didn't want to go home from work. "I felt anxious all the time," she says. "I never knew what kind of mood he( could be a she too) would be in, or if I had unknowingly done something that would have upset him." The type of guy Christine was dealing with is all too common, but there's nothing "normal" about it, says Dr. If you're sad more often than happy in your relationship and something feels wrong but you just can't put your finger on it, read on to see if you might be shacking up with a manipulative partner -- and what you can do about it. 7 Signs You Might be Dating a Manipulator: 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. If a few or more of these statements described your relationship, you're likely with a manipulator, and the bad news is, he is unlikely to change. But once you do recognize it, you can put a stop to it.